Wednesday, August 26, 2009

Lots of Stuff

There has been lots of "stuff" happening in the short time since I last updated. My TB test came back negative so that's good news! I attended First Aid and CPR training and passed my test. It really wasn't a very good class if you ask me. We only got to go through the entire round of CPR on a mannequin once... which I didn't feel was enough if you really need to use this at some point in your life. I have all three of my reference letters to turn in, and I have several babysitter forms from people to turn in. I still have more babysitter forms to get to people and I just found out that anyone who might teach one of my kids in Sunday School will have to fill out a babysitter form and get a TB test. That's a lot of people! I feel bad asking all of these people to do that, but I feel like I have to abide by the rules too, so I guess I'll be making an announcement at church Sunday. I guess the most disheartening thing has happened is that the county health inspector came out Tuesday to test the well water and check the septic tank. I won't get the results from the well water test for two weeks, but the septic tank did not pass inspection. Papaw built it himself and installed it and everything over 30 years ago which was before you had to have permits and all that jazz. So... I have to have an entire new septic system... lines and all! I honestly don't know how I'm going to afford that, but God has brought me this far through the process so I know that He will provide. It doesn't mean I'm not still discouraged because I am, but I don't know what else to do other than to turn it over to God. I just wish he'd let me in on the answer so I didn't worry and fret over it! I still feel like there are so many obstacles standing in the way of all of this.

I did have one other positive thing happen last week. I bought a crib! Since I'm going to have a wide age range of kiddos, I needed to have one just in case. I found it on Craigslist for $75 and it's in great shape. It also came with the mattress. Once the lady selling it found out I was fostering she threw in the bedding and bumper pads as well. It turns out that she and her husband are foster parents as well in Benton County! They have fostered 8 children and just adopted a sibling group of 3! 2 boys and a girl ages 3, 2 and 1! So... they are getting out of foster parenting since they have 3 toddlers and 3 older children at home. She was very sweet though and told me to call if I ever had questions or needed to talk to someone who's been through it before. It's amazing how God brings people across our paths! Well... I know this has been a long posting but there's been a lot going on lately. I'm going to wind this down for now and finish up my homework for tomorrow.

Friday, August 21, 2009

Tomorrow

Tomorrow I attend CPR and First Aid training so I can become certified by the American Heart Association. That's one thing to cross off of my still large list of things to do. I went and had my physical today and a TB test. I'll get the results of the TB test on Monday. My cholesterol was a little high, and my white blood cell count was slightly elevated, but other than that my physical turned out ok. So there's two more things to mark off my list. The Health Department will be out Tuesday to test the well water and inspect the septic tank. It's all starting to come together... slowly but surely! There still seems like a long list of stuff to do, but at least I'm starting to get to mark some stuff off! I'm a little behind in my homework so I need to get that caught up this week. I have to do session 6 on discipline. We have to write down how we were disciplined when we were younger and tell if it worked or didn't work. How we felt about it then, how we feel about it now. Then session 7 is a three page questionnaire about how you see a child fitting into your family. Foster only, adopt only or foster to adopt. I'm doing foster to adopt. I really hope that some day I can adopt and have my own family. I've always wanted to be a mom and they don't have to have my blood running through their veins to be my kids! Well... guess I'll sign off for now. Have a great weekend!

Wednesday, August 12, 2009

Homework

Well... tomorrow is foster parenting class again and I haven't done my homework yet. Nothing like waiting until the last minute! I have class every Thursday from 6 to 9pm. And two Satruday classes... we did two lessons this past Saturday and I think a week from this coming Saturday we will be doing our CPR and First Aid certifications. There is so much I still have to do in order to get ready for my home visit. I bought two new smoke detectors last week and just need to get them put up. I still need to get a fire extinguisher for the kitchen, a lock box for my medication and a lock box for any kitchen knives. And there's more, but I won't bore you with all of the details. I will mention two major things that I need, so please keep an eye out for these and if you find any at a decent price, just holler at me! I need a twin size bed (mattress and box springs) with the metal frame, and I need a crib and crib mattress. I have decided to take in a wide age range of children, so I might get an infant or a teenager at some point and time and I want to be prepared.

There are a lot of things that they require of you before you can foster a child. You know sometimes you hear those horrible stories about foster kids being abused in their foster home and seeing all of the stuff that I've had to go through this far in order to be a foster parent, really makes me wonder how anybody could slip through the system and do that to a child. I think either, they had people lie for them or someone didn't do their job very well in checking these people out!

I guess I should get off of here and get started on my homework since I have two lessons worth to do! Please continue to pray as I travel down this path.

Monday, August 10, 2009

New Blog Topic

Well... I have redesigned my page, changed the title and am going to be posting about something that is very near and dear to my heart. Children. I am in the process of becoming a foster parent. I am currently taking my training classes. The class that I have this Thursday will mark the halfway point of my classes. I have to say, these classes are not easy. The very first class we had, I was so overwhelmed when I left, I wasn't sure if I was up for this or not. But I have continued the classes and am glad that I have. There are so many needs out there and if I can help even one child, then it will all be worth it. As I continue with my classes I will post more about what I'm learning. There are a lot of rules that you have to abide by as a foster parent. Sometimes I don't know how I'm going to remember them all! This blog is really just a quick introduction to let you know what I'm going to be posting about and to let you know that I need all of the prayers that I can get! I wanted to add a short clip so that you can see the main reason I have chosen to do this.